11/14/2008

Orally Pleasuring a Female...BDSM Style

This is a how-to guide to all those men out there without proper knowledge of the female anatomy or how it needs to be pleasured. I haven't been classically trained in the art of cunnilingus, however I do get good reviews from my little sub. She has told her female friends about the way in which I pleasure her and they all wanted me to give lectures to their boyfriends. Being that I love to go down on my lady (and in fact crave it) I'm going to pass on my knowledge that you too may give yours that inner glow, which comes from your tongue caressing their most delicate flower.

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A good and satisfying experience for the woman starts long in advance. Men, it doesn't start when she is beginning to disrobe in preparation of your naked bodies meeting. No, it starts in the middle of dinner when you lean over and tell her how good she tastes. Then go back to eating like nothing ever happened. Then you continue to periodically remind her how badly you need your tongue on her clit. When she smiles or blushes be sure to tell her she's dirty for enjoying that moment.

Then when you arrive somewhere safe enough to follow through (notice I didn't limit this to the bedroom, be creative. Go outside!). Be sure to tease her. Take you time kissing her and telling her she's irresistible. Take of her top slowly, pay attention to shoulders, chest, and then breasts, and caress her body with your hands. If during this time she makes a mistake punish her for it. Nothing like the hot/cold treatment to turn your girl on. They won't mind, in fact, they will thank you for it if they are well trained.

Now it comes time to work your way down on her. Be dominating and assertive with her. Give her guidelines or boundaries, like stay quiet. When they aren't, enforce the rules. Simple. Then add in some humiliation. Tell them to spread their legs slowly. Describe to the girl how she looks spread eagle in front of you. Now is the time when just a little teasing is necessary. The longer tease between dinner and now works in your favor. She wasn't sure if she was getting any all night. Now that her legs are open and you can smell her beautiful scent, she knows where you're going. No need to pretend like you're going to drop her like a bad habit to play Xbox 360.

Now you are licking her lips and clit gently. Now I've read enough articles in Cosmo to know that every woman is different! Some are going to have highly sensitive clits, which keep them from enjoying a head on lick. These women will require a very light and gently lick and keep it slow and light. Other women will not be as sensitive and want you to give them more pressure. Either way I've never, ever read a complaint from a woman that said her man was too light on her clit. By the way, if you haven't figured it out yet it's all about communication.

Use the flat part of your tongue and not the point. This will create a nice, firm pressure. The point of your tongue will most likely just hurt. Spend more time on the clitoral hood than on the clit itself. The clit may be acceptable to stimulate, but this will be easier once she is turned on and close to cumming. Another thing is that it is acceptable to suck some on her clit, but never use teeth. You don't want her to chow down on you with her teeth, so don't do it to her! It's also okay for you to suck on her, too. This includes the labia and clit. You just need to change things up and keep it interesting for her. To change it up be sure to slide a finger or two into your partner. Give them to come hither motion to hit their G-Spot and watch them writhe in ecstasy.

Now, if you are evil you can control her orgasm and make her beg to cum all over your mouth. Make her say please and thank you. If she disobeys any rules in the process make her pay.

This is important! I realize that you as a male will want to crank up the speed to 10 once you see your lady's back arch and you hear those little pants/moans come out...it seems counter intuitive, but men slow and steady wins the race!

Now she has cum all over your face and is a sweaty, panting mess. Congratulations! Be sure to make the sub thank you before they drift off to a post-orgasmic nap. Good luck out there and happy licking!

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